No words can comfort those who have endured the horrendous killing of children and adults at the Sandy Hook Elementary School yesterday. The terrible tragedy is beyond understanding.
Yet some people who know the suffering families and individuals in Newtown will want to share a note of condolence in addition to helping in other ways. If you are among those people, I offer you these examples as models. They include made-up names.
Dear Maris and Joe,
Words cannot express the sorrow and shock we feel at your suffering. Please know that we hold you constantly in our thoughts and prayers and that we are available to help in any way.
In deep sympathy,
Kathleen and John
Please accept my deepest condolences on the tragic death of your beautiful daughter. I cannot think of anything to say that can comfort you in your sorrow. But I want you to know I am thinking of you and sharing in your grief.
I cannot imagine the sorrow and shock you must be experiencing. Margaret was such a lovely woman and was completely dedicated to the children she taught. Her death sickens us all.
Know that I am holding you, your family, and your community in my heart and mind.
With sincere condolences,
I have shared sample condolences messages many times on this blog, and it saddens me deeply to need to do it again because of the tragic deaths in Newtown. Nevertheless, I hope these examples are helpful in some way.