In email, letters, and memos that include a request, writers often end with one of these statements:
- “Thank you in advance for your attention to this matter.”
- “Thank you in advance for any help you can provide.”
In comments on another blog post, one reader said she hated “Thank you in advance” and another wanted to know why the phrase deserves hatred.
Thank You in Advance – Is It Presumptuous?
People hate the phrase for a couple of reasons. One is that it feels presumptuous. The writer presumes that you will provide what is requested and so is “thanking you in advance.” Would the proper response be “You are welcome in advance”? That silly suggestion shows how “Thank you in advance” comes across wrong.
“Thank you in advance” also suggests that the reader will not be thanked later on, after fulfilling the request. If the reader receives thanks in advance, will his or her actions be thoughtlessly ignored?
Of course, people who write “Thank you in advance” do not intend to be presumptuous or thoughtless. On the contrary, they are trying to be polite. If you are among them, here are courteous alternatives to consider:
- “Thank you for considering my request.” (Just by reading to the end of your message, your reader has considered your request.)
- “I will be grateful for any help you can provide.”
- “I will appreciate your help with this situation.”
- “I hope you will be able to provide the information.”
You can also sound polite by simply omitting the “in advance”:
- “Thank you for any help you can provide.” (But be sure to thank the individual after you receive the help too.)
Here are a few more alternatives:
- “Thankful for any help you can offer… “
- “Gratefully, [enter your name]. “
- “Thank you for considering this. “
- “I hope this is possible. “
- “I really appreciate your time here.”
- “In the meantime, thank you for considering this.”
- “Thank you for doing this.”
- “Thank you again.”
- “Thank you for your understanding.”
- “I greatly appreciate your extra time here.”
- “I understand how valuable your time is and certainly appreciate your attention.”
- “I will really appreciate any help you can provide.”
- “I will be very grateful if you can send me this information.”
- “Many thanks for considering my request.”
- “I hope what I have requested is possible.”
- “In the meantime, thank you so much for your consideration and time.”
Related: Check out our article on the art of saying thank you.